They say, “Marriage is a heavenly
bond, the couples decided by God.” Nowadays, there is a small addition to this
saying- “It is ended in court…”
A lovely and wonderful part of
life- marriage, that not only links two people but also two families and
culture, is celebrated as a grand event. It has all reasons to be treated as
one.
The rituals, the environment, the
laughter…oh and not to forget, the food, stays in everyone’s memory forever!
Two totally different people come together to spend the rest of their lives
together. Of course no marriage is a “happily ever after” story. There are ups
and downs. It depends on the two to stay together to make these ups and downs a
peaceful journey.
Everything has a solution. I
believe in it. Why would problems or misunderstandings ever exist if there were
no solutions at the end of the tunnel…. It is the same logic as Black and
White, Male and Female, Plus and Minus- everything has something! The main cure
to these problems is to solve them at ‘that’ given moment and not let it pile
up like one’s laundry. You take your laundry out later, it doesn’t give a good
feeling, right!
It is saddening that there are so
many “made for each other” couples who become “who the hell you are” couples. Caught
between the tug-of-war is the kid. There is something called the “Can Do/Cannot
Do” concept (I sincerely thank a very special sir of mine to acquaint me with
this). Got a problem? See if you ‘can do’ something about it. If yes, then go
ahead. If no, then cheers!! Honestly, I have had so little things to worry
about, since then.
Instead of pointing out each
others’ faults, try to focus on the so many positive things that actually
brought you together. Instead of nagging about not having time to spend with
each other, try to set aside that “special” time. The journey would seem much
happier and peaceful. I pity the couples who go ahead in the same path, without
each other. Is that all you know about each other… Also, your attitude would be
reflected upon on your kid. Remember, as you sow, so you reap!
All you got to do is sit down and
talk. What more than to talk to your loved ones… That’s what they are there
for!!
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